10 Quarantine Activities That Don’t Involve Watching the News

Captain’s Log. Day eight of quarantine. Work has been busy; I’m grateful for the technology we have to collaborate and continue business during this time. I have walked around the block seven times today. I wonder how many days in a row I can eat frozen jalapeno poppers for lunch before it needs to be addressed. All four cats in my Feline Foreign Language school have refused to make any progress learning French.

I refresh my Google search for coronavirus news for the 19th time today.

Virginia K-12 schools closed for the remainder of the school year. Olympics postponed. Three week lockdown in South Africa. More charts showing the impact of COVID-19.

That’s enough news for now.

I’ll check again in an hour.

Or sooner.

During this unprecedented time, it’s way too easy to check the news. I’m here at home on my computer and connected to the Internet. All I have to do is refresh a search or type in “coronavirus,” and I have access to global news and information about the pandemic. If I walk into the living room and turn on a 24-hour news network, I can consume COVID-19 related content all day.

It feels good, for a little, to see what’s going on in the US and the world. But for many of us, constantly checking the news can create or worsen feelings of stress and anxiety. How long will this last? When will things return to normal? Will we all have jobs in eight weeks?

It’s best to limit your consumption of news during this time. Here are ten things you can do besides watch the news:

  1. Get in touch with an old friend. You know when you have a fleeting thought about someone – an old neighbor, a former coworker, or a school-age friend? And you wonder how they’re doing? Now is a great time to reach out to someone you haven’t talked to in a while. Call, text, or video chat – everyone is in the same boat. It’s a great way to connect. Don’t forget your elderly family and neighbors or people with mental health concerns.
  2. Play games online with friends! If you and your friends are technologically savvy, you can probably find a way to play video games together on Steam or online consoles. If you can find one person who is tech savvy, that person can host a GoogleMeet (or another type of video conference) and share a screen to play interactive games.
  3. Exercise. Fun thing I learned during quarantine: a half a mile is not far to walk to the grocery store unless you have to bring a lot of groceries back (ow). There are many ways to exercise during the pandemic. If you can stay six feet away from others, and you aren’t sick, you can walk outside. Many fitness or yoga studios are streaming workouts that can be done with just a towel or a mat. There are also body weight exercises you can do from home without any equipment. As always, consult your physician before beginning an exercise routine.
  4. Experiment in the kitchen. Does your grocery store only have weird cuts of meat or vegetables you haven’t heard of left in stock? Challenge yourself to cook something new and different. If whatever you make isn’t quite edible, you can always order take-out from your favorite local small business to support them.
  5. Learn a new skill. Maybe it’s time to learn something to enhance your professional portfolio, like HTML or database administration. Maybe you can teach yourself to juggle or snap. (Confession.: I’m 34 and can’t snap). There are tons of free tutorials on YouTube for everything from playing guitar to how to moonwalk. You could also learn a foreign language using an app like Duolingo.
  6. Read a book, or heck–write one. Choose nonfiction books that open your mind to new ideas or dive right into a good old fashioned Southern vampire romance mysteries. You can even use social media or web conferencing to host a book club.
  7. Help people in need. You may have neighbors who are in an at-risk group for COVID-19. I’ve seen people use the NextDoor app or Facebook groups to volunteer to do grocery shopping or errands for those who shouldn’t leave the house. Many restaurants and small businesses are taking up donations to support their employees through this time.
  8. Practice deep breathing and meditation. I’ve never been good at deep breathing or meditation, mostly because I get bored easily and can’t sit still for long. Since we’re going to be sitting still and staying bored for a while, I might as well practice this useful, calming skill. There are many YouTube tutorials and online guides for both practices, as well as guided apps like Calm or Headspace.
  9. Make actual decisions about what you will watch on Netflix tonight. If you’re anything like me, you spend as much time scrolling through your streaming options as you do actually streaming content. But since we’ll have a lot of time to watch movies, you might as well stream anything you’re interested in. Bonus: use Netflix Party to invite others to join you.
  10. Do your laundry. No, seriously, Jess, you’re out of clean clothes. Your coworkers are beginning to notice that you have worn the same shirt the past two days. There is no excuse for you to leave your laundry in the dryer. You have nothing but time. Take them out and fold them. Now put them away. No, don’t leave them on the computer chair and pull random clothes out of a stack like it’s Jenga. You’re an adult. You can do this.

Have any suggestions for what to do besides check the news? Leave your suggestions in the comments.

This post courtesy of Mental Health America.

Photo by Seven Shooter on Unsplash.

Is It Important to Say “Please” and “Thank You” to Your Partner?

We’ve been taught by our parents that it’s important to be polite. We’ve been told that saying “please” and “thank you” are necessary to show respect and appreciation. But how far should we take that? Is it important to extend such politeness to our intimate partner? Or is there an assumption of trust and intimacy that precludes the need for such displays of politeness?
We would probably all agree that building trust in any relationship — especially intimate ones — require a high degree of respect, kindness, and sensitivity. Relationships cascade toward disconnection when we take each other for granted or become numb to how we affect each other. But to what extent is it necessary to offer a polite “thank you” whenever our partner does something kind for us? Is it incumbent upon us to thank our partner every time they pass the salt or hold a door open for us?

There’s much complexity to this issue. A sloppy, cavalier attitude would be: “You know I appreciate you, so why do I need to thank you?” In my experience as a couples therapist, people feel more connected when there’s a steady flow of gratitude toward each other. Relationships need nurturing to thrive.
However, such words of gratitude are effective to the degree that they are natural, spontaneous, and heartfelt. If saying “please” and “thank you” becomes an obligation or rote behavior, it defeats the purpose of using these words, which is to maintain an atmosphere of good will and respect, while nurturing connection and love. Intimacy doesn’t flourish when we feel an obligation or pressure to be polite.
People’s needs vary. Some individuals feel more connected when there’s a steady dose of “please” and “thank you” in their everyday conversation. For others, such displays of politeness may be experienced as an unnecessary or even annoying convention. For them, words are cheap — or at least not as helpful as actions that demonstrate love.  For them, respect and kindness are received more meaningfully when they’re non-verbally embodied in one’s demeanor, tone of voice, and sensitivity to their feelings and needs.

Offering Verbal Appreciation

If we’re paying attention, there are many things we can express appreciation for. When it feels “right” and natural, we can offer a “thank you,” or “I appreciate that” when we genuinely feel gratitude for words or actions that touch us in some way. Here are some examples of what our partner might do for us that we can express gratitude for:
  • Calls us at work to ask how we’re doing when they know we’re having a hard time about something.
  • Braves the rain to take out the garbage.
  • Makes a great meal for us.
  • Tells us something they appreciate about us.
  • Listens attentively to something we want to share.
  • Stretches in some way to please us, such as watching a movie they weren’t crazy about or visiting our family.
Hearing such appreciation nurtures trust and connection. It tells us that our partner is noticing what we’re doing for them — or for us — rather than taking us for granted.

Non-verbal Appreciation

Verbal appreciation helps nurture connection, but don’t neglect non-verbal displays of appreciation. Seeing a smile on our partner’s face may move us more than conventional words of thanks. A knowing glance or smile may convey more than any words can.
As our partner dishes out a delicious casserole, we might flash a smile or make sounds of pleasure that demonstrates delight and gratitude. Or a heartfelt comment with an inflection that conveys praise and appreciation, such as “Wow! you’re amazing” might thrill our partner more than a tame “thank you” that lacks feeling.
As an experiment, notice when you feel appreciation for something your partner or friend does for you. Can you find some words to convey that? Additionally, are there non-verbal ways you can show gratitude, such as through your tone of voice, facial expression, or eye contact?
Especially during difficult times, as we’re facing right now with the coronavirus, it’s important to let our partner and friends know that we appreciate them and don’t take them for granted.
If you’re not accustomed to heartfelt expressions of gratitude, you might find it uncomfortable at first. Gradually, you may find it to be very satisfying.
Expressing appreciation tends to boomerang back to you. It’s not always easy, but giving what you’d like to receive is wise path toward getting more of what you want.

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